Pas

Dad (Pappa) Watch


Parental Alienation Syndrome

Forensic Psychologist, Deirdre Conway Rand, Ph.D.

 

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advocate therapists to their side, as demonstrated by the father in Judge Tolbert's case (26), which is presented below.   Mental health professionals who make custody recommendations without interviewing both parents may be in violation of ethical standards.  Where professionals compromise themselves in high conflict cases, valuable information about parental dynamics can often be gleaned from analyzing the process by which this occurred.

Influence of Therapist Attitudes

The fundamental beliefs of many therapists about the etiology of psychological problems and what constitutes appropriate treatment can make the therapist an unwitting reinforcer of alienation.  Psychotherapy is a potent form of social influence.  Campbell conducted a study which revealed that the majority of therapists make significantly more negative than positive inferences about significant others in their client's lives (34).  In addition, therapists frequently assume that the client's psychological distress has its origins in an interpersonal environment which is " disrespectful psychologically avoidant, unempathic and punitive ".  These assumptions can substantially influence the course of treatment and the client's view of their situation.  Children of divorce may feel overwhelmed by the chaos and hostility of their parents' conflicts.  They may also feel a sense of betrayal when a parent moves out and the parents are focusing more on their conflicts with each other than on their parental responsibilities (32).

Child therapists who are predisposed to making negative inferences about significant others in the child's life may inadvertently reinforce a child's sense of anger and blame toward a target parent, sometimes in very subtle, pernicious ways.  Where the therapist's own view of the target/alienated parent is negative, even if only to mild degree, the therapist's view is likely to adversely influence the child.  This provides fertile ground for the development and reinforcement of PAS.  A detailed example of such a process is presented in The Real World of Child Interrogations which contains an analysis of multiple child therapy sessions in a contested custody case (36).  Transcripts of the sessions illustrate the process by which the therapist helped teach the child to make abuse allegations and reinforced the child's expressions of hatred toward the target parent in this case the father.

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Validators

When abuse is alleged, anyone in a position of authority can act as a "validator," including therapists, police, child protection workers, and medical personnel (37).  Validators are professionals who, when presented with allegations of abuse, assume that abuse occurred. They see their role as validating the alleged abuse rather than conducting an objective investigation.  Validators are relatively easy to find, especially when sought out by a parent seeking to strengthen their position in legal proceedings.
Validator interviews of the child tend to promote the child's voicing of an abuse scenario, whether or not abuse occurred.

Real World of Child Interrogations

Once the issue of molestation is raised, the child is often subjected to repeated interviews and evaluations, sometimes more than 20, according to a family law judge in California (28).  An analysis of 150 tape-recorded abuse interviews with children identified specific adult interviewer behaviors which influence children to alter accounts and to say things that will satisfy or please the interviewer (36).  Most adults are unaware of how their ideas and expectations teach children to conform their accounts to the expectations of the adult interviewer.  When the child is brought by a parent for an abuse interview, the parent's report of what occurred tends to shape the interviewer's ideas about what occurred and the questions which are asked.  These interviewer expectations are communicated to the child through the adult's reactions, leading questions and other suggestive techniques (e.g., drawings or " anatomical dolls " ).  Such effects occur even among professionals trained not to use suggestive methods.

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Suggestibility of Children's Recollections

There has been a growing body of research in recent years which shows the potential for interviews to teach children what adults expect to hear.  Ceci and Bruck conducted a comprehensive historical review and synthesis of this research in an article on the suggestibility of witnesses (38).  These authors cited Gardner as raising important questions about the ability of powerful authority figures to coach children and about children's ability to differentiate fact from fantasy.  Ceci and Bruck's review resulted in several important scientific findings:

1 ) There appear to be significant age differences in suggestibility, with preschool children more vulnerable to suggestion than either school-age children or adults.

2) Children can be led to make false or inaccurate reports about very crucial, personally experienced, central events.

3) Children sometimes lie when the motivational structure is tilted toward lying.

4) The previous points notwithstanding, children, including pre-schoolers, are capable of recalling much that is forensically relevant.

Ceci and Bruck concluded that in order to know the reliability of a child's report, the conditions surrounding the report need to be carefully evaluated, including prior access to the child by an adult motivated to distort the child's recollections.  Distortions frequently occur as a result of relentless and potent suggestions by adults, sometimes to the point of outright coaching.

Memory Research and its Forensic Implications

Many people subscribe to the incorrect belief that memory is somehow fixed and not malleable.  Loftus and her husband surveyed 169 people from a variety of socioeconomic groups (39).  The majority of respondents endorsed the belief that everything we learn is permanently stored in the mind and that consciously inaccessible details can be recovered with the use of special techniques such as hypnosis.   Psychology graduate students were particularly prone to endorse this view, although it is disproved by three decades of research.  It turns out that memory can be altered in a myriad of ways.

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The implications for law enforcement and the courts are staggering since eyewitness testimony is heavily relied upon in these settings.  The American Psychological Association sought to address these problems where children are concerned, publishing a compilation of articles by psychology's leading authorities on memory entitled The Suggestibility of Children's Recollections: Implications for Eyewitness Testimony (40). Ceci and Loftus were among the contributors.

Parents as Interviewers

Parents who are preoccupied with suspicions of abuse by the other parent often question their children repeatedly.  Some false allegations of abuse in divorce begin with a parent questioning the child after visitation about a rash, a bruise, or bathing at the other parent's house.  Everson described the case of a six-year-old-boy who produced more and more elaborate accounts of abuse in response to the attention and support he received from his mother as they discussed " his memories " of abuse each night at bedtime (41 ).  Initially, the child provided a consistent, plausible account of a teenage baby-sitter fondling his genitals and anus.  The baby-sitter confessed to this.  Over the course of several months, however, the child's description of what occurred became more elaborate, bizarre, implausible, and finally impossible.   According to Everson, the child may have become confused about the source of his more fantastic " memories " which probably grew out of the conversations with his mother.  This is sometimes referred as " source amnesia ".   Everson referenced Gardner's work relating to the assessment of child sexual abuse.

When Cults Have a Role in Parental Alienation

In extreme cases, a divorced parent determined to deprive the other parent of a relationship with the child will join a cult for the powerful help the group can provide in alienating the child from the other parent.  In an effort to recruit and control members, cults have perfected the art of parental alienation.  Cults are sometimes involved in parental child abductions.  Attorney Ford Greene, who specializes in litigation against cults, contributed the following family law case (42).

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Mr. Y was wounded and angry when the mother of his only son decided to end their common law marriage.  Mrs. Y was eager to mediate the dissolution and offered to stipulate to joint legal custody with reasonable visitation to the father.  Mr. Y refused and took Mrs. Y to court, where the judge ordered the custody / visitation plan first suggested by the mother.  Mr. Y became involved with a quasi-religious cult.   He used his visitation time to involve his 10-year-old son in the group's activities.  Under the auspices of the group, the boy was regularly hooked up to a bio feedback device for the purpose of training him to become " emotionally disconnected " when thinking about or interacting with his mother.  The child's mental state and behavior gradually deteriorated.  One day, the boy did not return to his mother's home after school.  Instead, he rode his bike ten miles from school to the ferry, crossing the bay and riding through a bad part of town to reach the group's headquarters where his father was waiting for him.  Mother turned to the court for assistance in getting her son back and protecting him from the father and the group.   The group tried strenuously to prevent the court from intervening, invoking the special protections the law provides for religious beliefs.  Greene, who was representing the mother, focused on specific group practices which were physically or psychologically detrimental to the child's best interests.  He stayed away from the legitimacy of the group's religious doctrines.  After hearing the evidence, the court found that the group's influence on the child was mentally and emotionally detrimental.   Mother was awarded sole legal and physical custody.

People tend to think of cults as large, well organized groups.   According to Singer and Lalich, however, cultic social organization can also be found in very small groups, such as the Symbionese Liberation Army (SLA) which abducted Patricia Hearst (43).  Cults can be organized around different ideological themes such as prosperity, health, psychotherapy, UFOs, or religion.

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Regardless of size or thematic focus, cults share certain social structures in common.  The group is built around a charismatic leader who controls the members directly, or indirectly with the help of loyal followers.  Cults routinely employ deception in recruiting, often using elaborate, cleverly conceived fronts to conceal the true nature of their activities.  New members are taken through a progressive process of thought reform, sometimes referred to as " brainwashing ".   Compliance is obtained in small steps which isolate inductees from the influence of non members and which foster dependence on the group.  The process discourages criticism of the group's ideas and encourages inductees to replace " old " ideas and relationships with the group's ideology, which is portrayed as " new " and more advanced.  Recruits are encouraged to reject the past and to drastically reinterpret their life history.  These tactics destabilize the inductee's sense of self and increase motivation to serve the group and its leader.  When the recruit's indoctrination is complete, he or she can then be deployed as an agent of the organization, to help expand the group's financial resources, power, and influence.

Almost anyone can be drawn into a cult under the right set of circumstances (43).  People are most vulnerable to recruitment when they are depressed and between affiliations.  Almost by definition, parents of divorce are " between affiliations ".   To varying degrees, they are also likely to experience depression at some point in the divorce process.  Religious cults may appeal to divorce parents who are seeking validation of their blamelessness and moral superiority in the proceedings.  Pastors and other church members in fundamentalist religious cults may openly denigrate the target / alienated parent to the children, claiming the authority of their holy book in referring to the target parent as an " adulterer ", " harlot " or " whore ".

In a presentation at a recent forensic conference, Bower (44) pointed out similarities between the mechanisms by which cult leaders control their followers and the tactics of alienating parents who form " unholy alliances " with their children.  Similar comparisons appear in Children Held Hostage (1).  This study of 700 divorce families, was reviewed in Part I.  Clawar and Rivlin anchored their research in 30 years of literature on the

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psychology of social influence, including indoctrination techniques variously referred to as brainwashing, mind control, thought reform, modeling, reeducation and coercive persuasion.  Bower likened the alienating parent to the leader of a one-on-one or small group cult, pointing out that children's dependence on parents makes them vulnerable to this source of influence.  The aligned parent and child, along with other supporters of the alienating parent's views, come to share, a closed, impermeable belief system, similar to the fixed ideology of an organized cult.

In normal circumstances, the power differential in parent / child relationships helps parents to instill a sense of conscience and moral values in their children.  As children grow, the love they experienced from their par ents in early years becomes a model for treating others with courtesy and considering other people's feelings.  In more severe PAS  however, the child's social and moral development are to-opted to varying degrees by the alienating parent's agenda.  In extreme cases, children growing up in the custody of an alienating parent become " corrupted," in the sense de fined by Garbarino et al.  They are encouraged to use deceit, manipulation and aggression in the service of the PAS agenda.  The SLA succeeded in " corrupting " Patricia Hearst for a time:  After she was subjected to isolation, indoctrination, terror and intimidation, she was induced to participate in a bank robbery, a violation not only of the law itself, but of her previous moral values.   Once separated from the SLA, she was able to resume prosocial values.

In extreme cases of cult indoctrination, members are trained to commit suicide rather than have contact with " evil ", " dangerous " outsiders.  In a parallel situation, severe PAS sometimes involves direct or indirect en couragement by the alienating parent for the child to threaten suicide or homicide if forced to have contact with the alienated parent.  Johnston encountered a case in which a 10-year-old boy hung himself when the court ordered that he be placed in the custody of his alienated father (10).  Two cases of attempted homicide by the child were reported in Part I (4, 45).  Both boys were in folie a deux relationships with their disturbed mothers after the parents divorced.

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One boy tried to poison his father (4), the other tried to burn his father's house down (45).  Careful evaluation and case management are required when there is reason to suspect that the child may be a danger to self or others.  Part III, devoted to interventions in PAS, will include the case vignette of two sisters who threatened suicide and homicide when told they would be court ordered to see their father.  Father had been the custodial parent per order of the family court.  Mother succeeded in alienating them and got custody through the dependency court, by involving the children in false allegations of abuse.  The girls' threats were taken seriously and the family court ordered hospitalization at a facility willing to deal with the possibility of PAS.   In the safety of a contained, closely monitored, therapeutic setting, the girls were successfully returned to father's custody.

PAS IN THE LEGAL ARENA

Legal Recognition of PAS

An increasing number of attorneys are publishing articles which recognize and seek to address the problem of parental alienation, variously using the term Parental Alienation Syndrome in the title, in the text or in the bibliography (30, 46, 47, 49, 50, 54, 55).   California attorney Patrick Clancy posts his Points and Authorities for the Admissibility of PAS Testimony on his web site.  An article by Wood opposes legal recognition of PAS (56).  Family law judges have been producing a growing body of opinions which discuss PAS by name or include findings of parental alienation without giving it a special label (26, 46, 47, 54-57).  A 1997 issue of The Judges' Journal included an article on managing visitation interference by Turkat (57), who has been referencing Gardner's work on PAS for several years.  Judge Vernon Nakahara in Alameda County, California, spoke with author Deirdre Rand about his opinion that judges need to be made aware of Gardner's work on PAS.  Judge Nakahara also shared his views on the role of the family law court in dealing with PAS and other high conflict cases.

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A Florida attorney was the first to write about PAS after Gardner introduced the term in 1985.  Palmer's article, published in 1988, described PAS as a strategy some parents were using to avoid their obligation to share parenting responsibility under Florida law (46).  She discussed two legal cases, including Schutz v. Schutz in which the judge opined: " The Court has no doubt that the cause of the blind, brainwashed, bigoted, belligerence of the children toward the father grew from the soil nurtured, watered and tilled by the mother.  The Court is thoroughly convinced that the mother breached every duty she owed as the custodial parent to the noncustodial parent of instilling love, respect and feeling in the children for their father.  Worse, she slowly dripped poison into the minds of these children, maybe even beyond the power of this Court to find the antidote " (46; pp. 361-362).   Palmer foresaw the need for early evaluation and intervention in cases of PAS and those with that potential, in order to prevent the development of completed, intractable alienation.  She recommended the use of judicial sanctions to hold alienating parents accountable and to provide incentives for changing their behavior.

In 1991, a Canadian law journal published an article by Goldwater which strongly supports legal recognition of PAS (47).  According to Goldwater, Gardner's 1989 book on family evaluation in child custody (48) " is certainly required reading for the family practitioner and should be considered the source document on the phenomenon of parental alienation syndrome...Indeed, there is a moral failure in smugly asserting that children have `rights' without taking into account their evident lack of autonomy and their material and psychological vulnerability to control and manipulation" (47; pp. 121-122).  Although the title is in French, most of the text is in English.   Canadian law and case citations are discussed.

In 1993, two articles were written by attorneys; one from New Hampshire (49) and one from South Carolina (30).  These articles took a practical approach to the special difficulties PAS cases pose to family lawyers, mental health professionals and to the courts.  Ward and Harvey are a psychologist and an attorney, respectively (49).   Their article distinguishes between " typical " divorce and " alienation ".  Alienation cases are distinguished by the nature and extent of a parent's willingness to involve the children. 

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According to Ward and Harvey, alienation family systems require their own specific interventions, a point Gardner continues to em phasize.  They build on Gardner's concepts about PAS and synthesize them with Johnston's work on the divorce impasse and high conflict families.

Sanders discussed PAS along with bad-faith relocation and fabricated sex-abuse allegations (30).  She referred to Parental Alienation Syndrome as a disorder named by Gardner.  She thought that mental health profes sionals and family law judges were becoming increasingly aware of the harmful process of parental alienation, regardless of the terminology used.  Support for this contention can be found by perusing the programs of family law conferences in recent years.  Since at least 1994, conferences of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts have featured presenta tions on parental alienation. Gardner's concepts regarding PAS are often referred to and his books on PAS are listed in the bibliographies of hand outs (50-53).   Gardner himself presents at major conferences, for example, the Children's Rights Council Conference in Washington, D.C., which is attended by mediators, psychologists, and attorneys, who receive con tinuing education credits.  Continuing education credits were also available to professionals attending the 1997 conference of the American College of Forensic Psychology, which included a presentation on the similarities between PAS and cults, discussed above (44).

Practicing psychology and law in Wisconsin, Waldron and Joanis put forth the view that PAS was readily accepted not because it was a "discovery" but because Gardner succeeded in conceptualizing and describing a familiar, complex, perplexing problem of divorce families which can have tragic consequences and is resistant to change (54). The article contains a number of case citations and a discussion of Karen "PP" v. Clyde "00. " This case involved a mother who sought to have father's visitation supervised because of alleged sexual abuse.  Opinions of the ex-parts involved differed as to whether or not the alleged abuse occurred.   According to Waldron and Harvey, this case is often inaccurately depicted as showing the " dangers " of PAS.   The court's opinion is often criticized for quoting Gardner's work at length (56), as if this was the sole basis for the court's findings.

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